Saturday, October 11, 2008

Regret when we never appreciate?

Flatter me, and I may not believe you. Criticize me, and I may not like you. Ignore me, and I may not forgive you. Appreciate me, and I may not forget you. - William Arthur

Learning it is difficult because our society teaches us about good and bad, right and wrong. We are programmed to believe in good and bad. If we have the things we want we are happy. If we don’t have what we want we begrudge others and regret. But did we ever think about why we don't deserve anything that we want? For me, because we don't truly appreciate what we have before, until it's gone.

We take so much for granted. We do not appreciate sometimes the simplest things in our lives that bring us so much pleasure. We do not seem to realize that we have so much more than most people in the world. We must understand that we must appreciate our lives and the things that bring pleasure in our lives, like love and friendship. We must appreciate the things in life that bring smiles to our faces and warm out hearts with pleasure and happiness. Only then will we all be able to appreciate and love the life we live.

Start appreciating all those wonderful things come into your life because when you work with it properly, you'll get what you want and more. Right now, think about something that you take for granted before, make it as your lesson and learn to appreciate it.

**'Do not regretted for something we lose when we don't appreciate it! Because we just show them that we are too selfish'

*Kasih. Really appreciate you!


Faisal Admar said...

hmm feel like this post is about me. but i guess its too late to regret.

crazie_manic said...

Skull : well sometimes we dosen't realise on things that we has done such as not appreciating but we will realise when we have lost it..and by that time me need to have the initiative to learn from our remember not to regret but to learn from it..

Skullsplitter said...

Faisal: This is for all of us to remember, how to appreciate things in our life. And i admit that i got idea to wrote about this from you. Yup, you don't have to regret, it's just waste your time, but as a friend, i will advice you to move on. Good luck and have a nice day!


Skullsplitter said...

Syahira: Yup! Agre with you, we don't have to regret but what we should do is 'think and learn'.


love-n-hate said...

appreciate.. regret.. lost...

to appreciate by words are easy... to implement it... I don't think so!

we always regret something we lost and when we can't achieve... why not hold while we still have it??

lost or losing... it just the matter of time... sometimes, people lost while still have it... but, they just ignore it...

zamspotte said...

regretting... Is the way to give Syaithon chances to 'hasut' us...

Appreciate others is the kindness of human and soul...

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