Sunday, December 14, 2008

Run Away?

Run away from adversity or suffering?

Nothing can change it if we keep run away from trouble. It will come again and again. You don’t have to go looking for adversity or suffering. It will find you. And when it does, don’t run away! If you have the courage to chase the lion into the pit on a snowy day, you may just discover your destiny in the middle of that adversity or suffering. Adversity or suffering is the seedbed of the opportunity.

There is a famous speech in the 1949 film, The Third Man, written by Orson Welles. Give me an inspiration.

"In Italy for thirty years under the Borgias, they had warfare, terror, murder, and bloodshed—but they produced Michelangelo, Leonardo Da Vinci, and the Renaissance."

What we can learn from this? Adversity or suffering it's just temporary situation we will have in our life for us to learn. Ponder. So don't run away from it. Just face it.

Run away from someone you love even though they are what you want?

Why? Afraid of rejection and getting your feelings hurt? We just judge others too early and we don't give them chance to show it. When you started to judge people, you just make one big mistake in your entire life. You just hurt yourself and others with that. You just be selfish to yourself and others too.

Or maybe you just love him/her only in the heat of the moment, and didn't really mean it. But you have to tell him/her what was in your mind and heart. It's not fair if you just run away from them without any notice. Running away or any of those thoughts will never solve your problem because deep down inside, you know that you're only hurting yourself. Be fair to yourself and others, give chance, don't judge. InsyaAllah.

To who in the opposite situation, someone run away from you even though you know that she/he in love with you, this my advice. "I just realize from my experience, don't freak them out by showing TOO MUCH love TOO EARLY." Simple words.



zackzara said...

Thank you for this post. I learn something from it.

*Am done with a book called "It's Just A Date" and it helps ppl to recognize things in relationship that is not taught in school.

Never run away, but face it with courage. Those who run away.. well.. simply ignorance?

Abril Chica said...

I saw abang was asking who was getting married dlm yus nyer blog kan?
thought u knew it already.

kecoh dah kat sini. huhuhu. msg2 ar nisa, ym ke. huhuhu. leh story sket.


CAHAYA said...

Running or Ignore? Which will you choose? Or you have better way?

Some people running without knowing the cause why and what. Some just like running. It's in their system. So, why question?

For me, if they choose to run away. Why don't you just run from them too. They will know what LOSS means.

Nizam Gtz said...

Diam bukan bermakna takut...
Mengalah bukan bererti kalah...

Tinggikan budi dengan rendahnya diri...

Fai Zakaria said...

i loves this post...
an eye opener for some people i hope.
thanks for sharing tour thoughts =)

Skullsplitter said...

zara : I don't know why people's keep running away. When you running away from suffering, you just lose one lesson that you can learn and keep for your better journey in this world. When you running away from someone you love, you just lose them. This is what we want? I don't think so.

**Sorry baru reply all the comment. Busy. Baru smp dari Johor. Sale kat Singapore! Huhu~


Skullsplitter said...

Nisa : Huh? Sape ek? Tk dpt berite lagi nih. Abg YM nisa tk bls pun.


Skullsplitter said...

Cahaya : I'll choose to face it. =)

Ya, I know it's in their system, but we can change the system rite? Why we have to see something only with eyes not with brain? =)

Erm, If you ask me, I don't want to run away from anyone. Why Allah created me, you and others? To learn from each other. Why we have to run away from them? =)


Skullsplitter said...

zam : It's sound like politician. Haha. Yup, diam bukan bermakna takut but run away from trouble I'll call it 'penakut'.

Mengalah bukan bereti kalah, but zaman skang nih dah susah nk cari yang macam ni, kalau dah mengalah tuh.. habis terus. Just give up like that je.


Skullsplitter said...

Porcelain : Hey goo goo doll! Hehe. Thanks for visiting me. Some people you hope? Erm.. InsyaAllah. =)


Anonymous said...

edy woof woof,hahahha wei keje astro lg ke?Ada keje kosong ke?

Skullsplitter said...

hakim : Ces! lame tk denga cite? ko dh abis blaja? dah tue pn blaja lg ke? haha. astro? aah. keje kosong ade. tapi cleaner aa. haha. ko mmg sesuai. bile nk lepak?

Honeydy Love said...

nice one... mybe u should read your articles back, and back on track like before. Running away doesn't solve anything, but we'll tends to loose something we thought it is not worth it. Appreciate what is in front of you, grab the opportunity that u received. Fail doesn't mean it is da end of da world. tcare aite..