Run away from adversity or suffering?
Nothing can change it if we keep run away from trouble. It will come again and again. You don’t have to go looking for adversity or suffering. It will find you. And when it does, don’t run away! If you have the courage to chase the lion into the pit on a snowy day, you may just discover your destiny in the middle of that adversity or suffering. Adversity or suffering is the seedbed of the opportunity.
There is a famous speech in the 1949 film, The Third Man, written by Orson Welles. Give me an inspiration.
"In Italy for thirty years under the Borgias, they had warfare, terror, murder, and bloodshed—but they produced Michelangelo, Leonardo Da Vinci, and the Renaissance."
What we can learn from this? Adversity or suffering it's just temporary situation we will have in our life for us to learn. Ponder. So don't run away from it. Just face it.
Run away from someone you love even though they are what you want?
Why? Afraid of rejection and getting your feelings hurt? We just judge others too early and we don't give them chance to show it. When you started to judge people, you just make one big mistake in your entire life. You just hurt yourself and others with that. You just be selfish to yourself and others too.
Or maybe you just love him/her only in the heat of the moment, and didn't really mean it. But you have to tell him/her what was in your mind and heart. It's not fair if you just run away from them without any notice. Running away or any of those thoughts will never solve your problem because deep down inside, you know that you're only hurting yourself. Be fair to yourself and others, give chance, don't judge. InsyaAllah.
To who in the opposite situation, someone run away from you even though you know that she/he in love with you, this my advice. "I just realize from my experience, don't freak them out by showing TOO MUCH love TOO EARLY." Simple words.